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July 10, 2011

When you say it's over...it's suppose to be over right?



I decided to try blogging for once with what's going on with my life and my thoughts on various things that I observe and go through. Moving along, I just spent some time talking with my friend and we were discussing about relationships and things that were going on in them. Well, my friend just recently broke up with her boyfriend and she's been telling me about how her boyfriend broke up with her because he has insecurity issues due his previous relationship. Anyways, her boyfriend is basically being really immature and saying a bunch of mean things to her and not trying to compromise with her so he broke up with her eventually or they agreed to become friends. As time progressed, he would constantly text her and try to stay in touch with her. For example, he would text her at 4:30 AM in the morning (which friends normally don't do). The point of this is that he's being a hypocrite to his own words and trying to act like a boyfriend when they are supposed to be friends only. Furthermore, he get's mad and calls her out when she does something that is girlfriend-like, but whenever he does it, it's "ok" so it's making my friend annoyed. After hearing this from her though, I look back at a certain girl that I use to know and I'm still trying to keep in touch with her even though I said goodbye and walked away but I keep going back to talk to her so I was like "wow" I'm just like her ex-boyfriend. *sigh* Embarassing isn't it? It's like you don't realize what you have until it's gone and then you find yourself trying to get it back when you threw it away in the first place. Anyways, thanks for reading up to this point. Any of you ever been through something similar like that?


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Hello William this is Mahdi, to be honest while i was reading your text i realized that sometimes i was like her ex boyfriend. i had such experience before and you know when you say [Good bye] to a girl who you used to meet frequently at first it seems OK but after a day or 2 you feel a big gap in your life and you try to fill this gap by texting or calling her again even-though you already broke up...its ridiculous...why should she be happy for that after you neglected her and broke up... to some extent all men are same in this case...its very difficult for us to accept that we made a mess. what do you think?

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